Past 40 weeks
Still welcome here.
Most babies arrive within a two-week window around the due date — which means a meaningful number arrive after it. You're exactly on time.
What's typical
Roughly one in five first-time pregnancies continues past 40 weeks. Your provider will usually check in around week 41 with a non-stress test or ultrasound to make sure the baby is happy where they are. Most providers recommend induction by 41½ to 42 weeks, because risks gradually increase after that.
The emotional weight
The last days can feel long. Every message asking "any news?" lands a little heavier than the one before. A few things that help:
- Send a group text with an explicit "we'll let you know — please don't ask" request. Most people are relieved to follow that lead.
- Keep one small thing on the calendar each day — a walk, a coffee, a nap — so the day has a shape.
- Rest more than you think you need. You are going to need it.
When to call your provider
Outside of routine check-ins, call right away for:
- Noticeably reduced baby movement
- Heavy bleeding or gushing fluid
- Severe or persistent headache, vision changes, or swelling
- Strong regular contractions or water breaking